1. r/weddingplanning
This is the biggest one, full of couples asking about timelines, vendors and budgets. Self-promotion is not allowed, so answer questions with real detail and let people check your profile. Search "day of coordinator" or "overwhelmed" plus your city. A good reply: "For 120 guests I'd lock the venue and caterer first, then build a 15-minute run-of-show for the day. Happy to share a template if useful."
2. r/Weddings and r/wedding
These skew toward sharing and venting, but stress posts are common. Never pitch in the thread. When someone says they have no idea how to run their day, offer one practical tip in public. If they reply asking for more, move to DMs.
3. Your city subreddit
Subreddits like r/Austin, r/chicago or r/Denver get posts asking for venue, caterer and planner recommendations. Search your city sub for "event planner", "venue for" or "birthday party". Read the sidebar first because many have weekly recommendation threads where a short intro is allowed: "Local planner, I do weddings and private parties under 150 guests. Happy to answer venue questions."
4. r/EventProduction and r/eventplanning
Smaller subs, mostly other planners and producers, which makes them good for referrals, not direct sales. Help people with logistics questions and mention the event types and area you cover. Planners who are overbooked or out of town pass work to people they recognize.
5. r/smallbusiness and r/startups for corporate events
Founders and office managers ask about offsites, team retreats and launch parties. Search "offsite", "team retreat" or "holiday party". Reply with a short plan, such as a rough agenda and a per-head budget range for their group size, then offer to scope it on a call.
6. r/Parenting and local parent subs
Milestone parties like first birthdays, quinceañeras and bar and bat mitzvahs come up here. Answer when someone asks how to handle a guest list or a vendor problem. Only mention your service if your local sub's rules allow recommendations or someone asks directly.
7. Set up saved searches and check daily
Save searches like "need a planner", "day of coordinator" and "[your city] venue" across these subs and check them every morning. Reply only where you can add something specific. Ten useful replies a week builds more trust than fifty generic ones. Hulby can run this daily for you, flagging fresh posts and drafting replies you approve.
Mistakes to skip
- Dropping a link or business name in a thread where the rules ban self-promotion.
- Copy-pasting the same reply across posts, which mods and users notice fast.
- DMing people who never asked for help.
- Ignoring your own city subreddit, where local intent is strongest.
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Find my first customersQuestions
Can I promote my event planning business on Reddit?
Only where the rules allow it, usually in weekly promo or recommendation threads. Everywhere else, help first and let people come to you.
Which subreddit gets the most clients?
For weddings, r/weddingplanning. For local private and corporate events, your city subreddit usually converts better.
Do I need an old Reddit account?
It helps. New accounts often get auto-filtered, so spend a week or two commenting helpfully before mentioning your services.
How do I move from a comment to a paying client?
Offer something useful like a timeline template or a quick budget review. When they say yes, take it to DM and suggest a 15-minute call.